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As lesbians, we’re seeing this thing happen where straight women hit on women to turn their boyfriends on and fulfill their guy’s fantasy, but lesbian sex is a different story.

As women who love women and love sex with women, we do our sex sober.

What is it about bi-curious women and their heterosexual, male friends or even the idea of heterosexual, male friends that make me uneasy?

I’ve been thinking about this since my first Café Au Lait and I’m now four in.

I can’t leave out the man who doesn’t take Lesbian relationships serious with his sarcastic remark of, “Oh…you guys are really a couple? It’s these notions that cause my deliberate labeling of every heterosexual man I come in contact with.

The way men have sex with a woman is so different from woman-on-woman sex.Dating a bi-curious woman could be an adventure or a nightmare or some version of both. Women have menstrual cycles along with cycling emotions.Women need to talk a lot more than men, resulting in what we know as “processing” in lesbian land that can take hours. And all that needs to be processed, explored, felt over and over again and talked about some more. If she’s never had great sex with a man, she’s in for a real treat.It’s takes being open, receptive and willing to let go of what she’s known about sex with men. We aren’t a Kinsey sex experiment for a curious, mostly straight chick to play with and then be able to say she tried it.Not to wear this idea out, but if a woman is just curious about doing it with another woman, do you want to go there? But before I put words in your mouth, I know some of you would say yes.

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